I'm in love with a guy who lives abroad

​It's only been a month or so, but I want to plan our future together. Is that crazy?

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  A lady wrote a letter to E.Jean (Dare Dollface)about her new found love,they have only be together for a month,poor her... Read the letter below
""" What are my rights under international law? I live in the States. He lives in Zurich. We had a one-month intense foreign affair via e-mail. Then he came, he stayed, we loved! He's brilliant, gorgeous, very successful, and he adores me. We still talk three times a week and text four times a day. In the beginning, we were talking about moving together to New York, but now, not so much. I'm a firm believer in "no rules" when it comes to love, but I want a plan. Marriage is not a priority, but I do want to be with him. I don't feel comfortable asking, "What's going to happen in the next year?" I want to believe he's not making me feel that I can't ask, but I think I know better.Though we've only been in the same vicinity for a month total, I've got something special here. Can I ask him when we're pulling out the troops?—Dare I Want More?""""
See the reply of E.Jean (Dare Dollface)to her letter below

""""Dare, Dollface: No. No. Nooooooooooo. You may not ask him. What have you been doing? Reading self-help books about "communication" that were written by people who haven't gotten laid in 20 years? Don't be in such a hurry. It's too soon. It's too pushy. It's too desperate. It strips the wonder. It strangles the charm. It will crush the romance. Write to me in a year—then it may be time to talk.

This letter is from the E. Jean archives.